Using a condom: stress-free and more fun than you think! Who said that using a condom kills the moment? Nonsense - people who say that just haven't been doing it right! There are lots of ways of making using a condom all part of the fun and build-up to sex. For example, your partner can put it on for you or both of you can explore fun and creative ways of getting it on! Watch our "Quickie" below, which is all about bringing up condom use with your partner(s): Most importantly talking and being open will make you feel relaxed! Don’t get stressed if you lose your hard-on. And remember there are lots of different sensual, sexy and horny things you can do, apart from penetrative sex. Remember condoms come in different sizes. If you feel uncomfortable this could be the reason why the condom is not working for you. Like shoes, we all need different sizes!